Last night

So last night I went out for a couple pints with some co-workers.  I very nearly didn’t go; the social anxiety was decidedly at the forefront.
But… I ended up having a really good time. Though I feel like I was blushing half the night from the jokes around the table, (mostly dudes,  mostly innuendos of a homosexual nature) interspersed with discussion of family and hobbies. (Im not sure why male interaction is largely making jokes at each other’s expense, but it is funny to see in full swing) I managed to join in at some points and had zero angry boyfriend texts.
Seriously; no angry bf texts! !! No where are you?, no what time are you leaving? , no harassment at all.
I have no words for how amazing that is. 🙂


Real life stuff


Its cold and rainy here. I got a wild hair and decided to throw some stuff in the crock pot and call it soup.  So far its black eyed peas, chorizo,  tomato,  onion, pepper, a couple of jalapenos and some collard greens. Time to chuck in some spices and cross my fingers!

Things the boyfriend does that I don’t understand. .

So this may end up as a part 1.
But the current query is as follows. .
  I’ve been living with my bf for almost a year.  He’s not very physical at home, but he gets touchy in public and it weirds me out. If it wasn’t a total switch,  it’d be less odd, but because of my inexperience,  I want to ask if other dudes do this and why? Just before I ask him so that i don’t approach the question in an insensitive manner; because guys get really weird over that shit.

So uh hey

I haven’t posted in a long time.  Been through some angry incarnations that really didn’t deserve a voice. 
Posting today because I saw a post on Facebook that hit the wtf bone.
Dude posted that having a secret camera in his bedroom would be a great way to avoid false allegations of rape; and I really have no way to put this into words. Its just me being super squeamed out.
How is this a better option?  Aren’t there laws against recording people in such situations?  And eeeeeww if this is really the only way you think to be sure your sexy time is on the up and up.
Gonna go shower in bleach